Summary
As you can see, there are a number of strap-ons that you can choose from – whether it’s pegging for anal penetration, or looking to extend the size of your penis to pleasure your lover, there are plenty of options for everybody to choose from. The great news about a lot of strap-ons is that they are completely interchangeable so you can play around with any other dildos that you currently own. Although, having said this – we know it can be hard knowing which product is the best for you. Below are some things for you to consider.
Size
Believe it or not, size does matter. It’s important to not be too adventurous with size, especially if it’s your first time pegging. We recommend going for 5 or 6 inches to start off with, and then working your way up to larger sizes. Make sure to use plenty of lube, too.
To vibrate or not to vibrate
There are a lot of strap-ons that allow for either built in vibration to the dildo or optional uses of a bullet. If you want to learn how to use a bullet vibrator then we’ve created a number of resources to help you. If you’re unsure on how to use a strapless dildo within a strap-on, we can help with that too. Vibrating will increase the sensations felt with penetrative sex, so if that’s something you’ve experimented with already, then we recommend going with a vibrating dildo. Remember, vibrators will need to be charged – so ensure that you’ve charged them before use to avoid disappointment.
Adjustability
Although most strap-ons are adjustable, it’s important to find the right material for you. Take note that elastic will become weaker over time, so you may be better off going for a fabric or buckle option instead – although in some designs these may not be as comfortable for long-term play.
FAQ
What is pegging?
It is where a lady or vagina-owning spouse wears a tap, pops a strap-on dildo (do not worry, there may be as large or little as you prefer ), gives their penis-having spouse a little bum action. Clearly people of all sexualities and gender identities utilize strap-ons, however, the expression pegging usually describes some male/penis-haver being penetrated by a female/vagina-haver). And would you know everything? Though it seems somewhat intimidating and frightening initially, being responsible for this thrusting (and accepting control) could be super sexy.
How safe is pegging?
Start small and work your way up – that you do not need to terrify your spouse by wielding a massive dong at them to get their initial pegging experience.
Slow and gentle – diving, strap-on very first, will simply lead to difficulties so be certain that you take your own time.
Communicate before, during and following to prevent any unwanted surprises. Talk about what you are likely to do, then ask whether they are enjoying it if they would prefer one to go slower, faster or even stop completely, and make sure you have some post-peg chat to find out whether it is something that you want to do this again.
Overall, pegging is very safe and as long as you start slow, you can both have an enjoyable experience overall.
What is pegging good for?
Pegging is mostly used to stimulate the male g-spot, which will enable him to feel intense orgasms. Although this may be the most commonly shared goal for those who like to engage in pegging, you may find that pegging is also good for asserting dominance and role play in certain circumstances. The beauty of using sex toys is that you can make it completely unique to you – so whether it’s using a flogger to assert dominance, or using a strap-on to give your partner an orgasm, it’s completely up to you.
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