Summary
Penis gags are a great way to spice things up in the bedroom. Although mostly used in sex plays where you aim to humiliate your partner and get both sides aroused and ready for more, penis gags can be used as a way to stroke the dom’s ego.
For whatever reason we go for penis gags, you have to make note that not everyone might enjoy every penis gag. That is why we did this short guide on how to choose the best toy for you, as well as some FAQs that solve all of your burning questions.
Material
This is something that you should always check, especially if you are allergic to latex. Many penis gags are made from latex, and they always contain this allergen in their instructions. But if you don’t have this problem, then it is all up to you. You can always add more spice to the game with some organic lubricants, but plugs, or anything else that you would both enjoy.
Fastenings
All penis gags come with straps for you to fasten them around your head and hold the gag in place. The best part is that they are easy to use – encircle around your head and buckle them or strap them on. When choosing the straps, leather is always the best option. However, if you don’t like this option, many are made from faux leather or other animal-cruelty-free materials.
Length
Never go for the bigger ones especially if you are not used to them. Length is very important when choosing your penis gag, considering it can activate your gag reflex. Many would like to get rid of the gag reflex, but that is not always advisable, considering it can be your savior.
Our advice is to try smaller ones and slowly upgrade to the big leagues. Communicate with your partner and decide what the best option for both is. After that, you can enter the realm of lengths!
Color
Many would say that this is probably the least important part of your toy. But sometimes, you just want to climb another step on the excentric scale. That is where color steps in. Most sex toys come in black, but you can find what your heart desires if you look a little deeper.
Red is always a spicy and hot color, signifying passion and lust. You can choose a pink one that would show off your gentle side, or go for a cold blue one that can present your stone-cold grip and desire.
Nonetheless, remember that lighter colors might be more prone to staining compared to darker ones. But considering that most penis gags are easy to clean, you can rest assured that any color you pick will show you in your best light!
FAQs
If used correctly, then yes. Penis gags are totally safe, and the important thing with them is the length. Larger ones could cause choking hazards, and then your whole play would be turned upside down. Smaller penis gags are safer because they don’t go so far into the wearer’s mouth and activate the gag reflex.
- Why do people like penis gags?
This is a question that is as old as penis gags. Many don’t see the appeal in penis gags, but to people in Dom/Sub relationships, penis gags are a must in the sex toys arsenal. It’s more about the fantasy. A penis gag constructs a firm hierarchy where you know who’s the boss and who’s the obedient servant. The arousal cocktail from domination, humiliation, and not being able to talk can be overwhelming.
- How do I know that I have found the right penis gag?
As long as you and your partner are enjoying steamy sessions with this toy, you know you’ve made the right choice! It always comes down to what your preferences are. If you don’t have a problem with gagging, then you can choose any length you want. Sometimes the material can play a crucial role for you. Follow our guide to find the right penis gag for you.
The only part that is not cruelty-free is the leather straps. Most penis gags use leather straps, but you can always find faux leather if you are adamant about using vegan sex toys. These may take you longer to find, but they exist – you just have to search for them.
Conclusion
Set a gag order in your spouse with loads of classic and unique gags to select from! Muffle their shouts, stifle their cries, and make sure your bratty sub cannot talk back! Proceed with a ring gag, spider gag, or open-mouth gag if you want access to their mouth. Decide on a dildo gag or inflatable gag to create a throat servant with no gag reflex!
Unless you prefer the gagging… A conventional ball gag or little gag is a must-have for any BDSM toy group. There aren’t many things better than a bound and gagged woman or boy servant. Close your plaything with your perfect gag, then have your way with their physique!